Woe #52: I don't know what type of jewelry or shoes to wear.

I thought that finding a wedding dress would be the hard part.
Oh hell nooo. {Read that <--- with black girl attitude.}
Woe #52: I don't know what type of jewelry or shoes to wear.
Accessories are everything,
and so far all I know is that I'm wearing a birdcage veil.
Did I mention I'm getting my bridals taken in... two weeks?
*bangs head against wall*
I really want to wear something kelly green under my dress,
maybe like cute sandals.
No Converse and no flip flops.
My best friend already has that called for her wedding.
Then I saw these kelly green Toms online.

Only problem?
They're men's shoes.
So, I don't know what size I would need to get them in.
And Toms are $54 shoes, for heavens sake.
Worth it, yes or no?
As for jewelry, I have no idea.
My dress is going to be one shoulder.
From everything I've read, stylists say no necklace.
Only earrings and a bracelet.
I think that would look boring.
But I don't know what type of jewelry I would wear.
Pearls? Sterling silver? Something with diamonds?
Dangly? Studs? Layered?
{No gold. Absolutely no gold.}
Someone help me.
Please.