Basically, you're going to be stuck with this person for the rest of your life. Through all the ups and downs, he's going to be there. When he's sick or grumpy or pissy, you have to deal with him. When he's old and can't go to the bathroom and soils himself in his big boy underwear, you've got to change him. He's going to be the father of your children, your partner in crime, and your support system. He's going to be there for the rest of your life or if you're Mormon, for FOREVER. And forever is a long time.
Forrrrrreeeeevvvvvveeeeerrrrrrrrr.
Not to mention that as a bride that you're planning the most important day of your life.
Woe #9: Sometimes you panic.
Anxiety is an awful thing. My brain is constantly going 99 mph, and doesn't know how to slow down or stop. I over-analyze everything. I think negatively. I get annoyed easily over the smallest things. Sometimes I panic so bad that I have meltdowns. I'm a perfectionist and a control freak.
But I thank God every day that He gave me such a patient, loving man to call mine. Trev knows how to calm me down and make me think logically. He is so positive, happy, and optimistic about the future, compared to his negative Nelly fiancee. For him, life goes with the flow, and he doesn't panic over little things. Life doesn't have to be perfect, and he doesn't always have to be in control. Every day, Trev teaches me something new about life and tries to help me enjoy the little things.
And I can't imagine being stuck with anyone else for the rest of my life.
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